Love Languages Test

Free, five minute 5 Love Languages Test to find out your style. Based on Gary Chapman Love Languages theory.

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Take this free, 5 mins Love 5 Language Test and find out your Love Language. This 35-question quiz reveals how you prefer to give and receive love. The concept of love languages was created by couples counselor Dr. Gary Chapman, who observed that people differ in what sort of interactions make them feel loved. Knowing your love language helps you better understand yourself and your partner, resolve conflicts, and enhance intimacy in your relationship.

The 5 Love Languages

Physical Touch

Expressing love through physical touches such as hugs, kisses, or holding hands

Words of Affirmation

Expressing love and appreciation through verbal communication

Quality Time

Showing love by giving undivided attention and spending quality time together

Receiving Gifts

Expressing love through the giving and receiving of gifts

Acts of Service

Showing love by performing practical tasks or acts of service to help the other person

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    Sarina V., 35

    “I can’t thank the team enough for creating such an insightful love language style test. The report was incredibly accurate, and it opened my eyes to my own behaviors”.

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    Tim J., 44

    “A must-have for anyone experiencing repetitive issues in their relationship(s).”

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    Kevin L., 28

    “Really helpful! This test helped a lot. Before I was struggling to identify my style. And the report you get after summarizes the most relevant pieces of it really well.”

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    Lara P., 35

    “Basically my life explained.”

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    Maria S., 39

    “This finally helped me understand why it's happening AND get off the hamster wheel into a more satisfying partnership.”

Use Gary Chapman Love Languages theory to strengthen your relationships

  • Self-knowledge means, first of all, seeing the pattern. Understand your love style and what your personalized scores mean.

  • When you sense an argument brewing, what's your initial reaction? Knowing your and your partner's love language can empower you to respond differently to help you resolve the conflict successfully.

  • Ultimately, the quality of your relationships dictates the quality of your life. Learn how to communicate your needs effectively and finally get what you want in your relationships.

The science behind Chapman 5 Love Languages

Dr. Gary Chapman published his book "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts" in 1992. Over the years, a growing number of studies suggest that your love language style has a key role in the success of your relationships.

As many popular books state an understanding of adult love language style can help anyone find and sustain love.

This test and its results are based on years of research by leading psychologists in the field.

Language Love FAQ

Q. What is the Love Language Test?

A. My-love-language test is a tool that allows you to understand how you like to give and receive love in romantic relationships. It measures the concept similar to the five love languages developed in the 1990s by psychologist and marriage counselor Dr. Gary Chapman, but with some key adjustments based on My Love Language team research.

Q. Can I trust the accuracy of the Love languages Test?

A. No personality test is a one-size-fits-all solution, but our love language style test has undergone extensive research to ensure its validity and reliability. Most of our users describe their results as both accurate and insightful.

Q. Is this a compatibility test?

A. This test will not tell you who's perfect for you, but it can give you some insight into how to be a better partner to whoever you choose. The idea behind love styles isn't to put people in boxes or limit the types of relationships they can have. It's about understanding how different people express and receive love. By getting this understanding, you can communicate better with your peers - whether they're your partners, friends, or family - about how to make each other feel more loved, appreciated, and connected.

Q. How long is the 5 Language Test?

A. This test consists of 35 questions and takes about 5 minutes to complete.

Q. Is this test really free?

A. You do not need to purchase or register to take this test and view a basic overview of your results. However, you can purchase a more comprehensive full report.

Q. What will my results for the Love Language Exam look like?

A. After completing the test, you will get your predominant love language. After reviewing your summary, you have the option to unlock your full and 100% personalized report for a fee.

Q. Is this 5 Love Test appropriate for children?

A. This test is not appropriate for children under the age of 14.

Q. Is this the Gary Chapman official test?

A. No, My Love Language has developed its own test with expert researchers and therapists based on Dr. Gary Chapman theory.

Q. Are you going to sell my data?

A. We do not sell your email or other data to any third parties, and we have a zero-spam policy. We carefully comply with applicable privacy laws in handling your personal information.

Find Out your Love Language

Find Out your Love Language